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Hey Besties and Bro's I need your advice today....

How do you break a habit that's not necessarily a bad habit? All my life my mom and my children has told me that I had/have a habit of caring for others more than I do myself. That I would put others needs before mine which at times would make me go without. So my question is HOW CAN I BREAK THIS HABIT???? 

I think I enabled someone to depend on me on a daily basis and it's not a bad thing, it's just draining and has become overwhelming. I saw a need and because of my heart I supplied that need but now I think the need has become a dependency and I really can't afford to continue. My issue is how do I stop without hurting them or making them feel bad because at the end of the day if I stop the need is still there and I'm not the kind of person that can have and see someone else without.....

What do you think? What can I do?