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So often growing up I've heard "Be Quiet". "Don't question God." "Don't talk during the movie." "Stay out of this conversation." "Stay out of grown folks business"...... and the list goes on. What if this was the beginning of us being groomed to keeping our mouth shut when we should be speaking? What if this was a systematic way to get us to just follow the lead and not be a leader? What if this was the enemy way to get us to fall into the trap of religion and not relationship? What if thi...

As a child I often participated in a game called "hide and seek". The objective is to conceal "hide" yourself while the person that is appointed to be the chaser gives you time by counting and then they come and find you. I remember laughing quietly and running while trying not to give up my sacred hiding spot. After a while the chaser would actually find and tag me or I'd run a different route until I got back to home base, where the chaser would have to start the cycle all over again. Th...

So often when we are in relationships, we often see potential or have a longing for the other party to possess a certain something that we feel would make the relationship better. We want them to have what we think is missing to make us happy in the relationship. We want them to make changes because we have convinced ourselves that they are the ones that need to change and not us. We make affirmations like, “if they don’t change then I’m leaving”. “If they don...

So often when we are in relationships, we often see potential or have a longing for the other party to possess a certain something that we feel would make the relationship better. We want them to have what we think is missing to make us happy in the relationship. We want them to make changes because we have convinced ourselves that they are the ones that need to change and not us. We make affirmations like, “if they don’t change then I’m leaving”. “If they don...

Do you feel like as a parent if you have raised your kids and they become famous or financially successful that they owe you? Do you feel that since you rushed off of work to take them to practices and games, or you worked extra hours so that you could afford to put them in special leagues like “AAU” and you’ve paid for special coaching sessions, or made sure they had enough money to go on all of the out of town trips with the team, sold dinners on the side so that you could...